I have to go lay down

Dalu writes:

"I have come to realize that, my master plan to marry someone from a "no-no" Sudanese ethnic group (as a "in your face" to my mother and father's obsession with ethnicity) might fail because what if the person I propose to has their own ethnic pressures to fulfill? I had known a guy who kept saying "too bad you are not from my ethnic group, but oh hey, let's totally make out while this magical union lasts."

Wait, what?"